Whatever makes you comfortable and happy! We'll be dressed up but you don't have to be.

Please RSVP by August 25. But if for some reason you don't/can't, just call us and let us know you are coming!

Our wedding is at the D.H. Lescombes Winery at 7075 Highway 549 in Deming, NM 88030. It is very close to our home.

We've listed some local things to visit on the Things to do page of this site, some in town and some a couple hours away. White Sands is a favorite!

The wedding will be mainly outdoors, though we will have access to the tasting room and restrooms. September evenings in New Mexico can still be warm or cool, so dress accordingly!

While we don't have organized transportation, we do have enough nice people who will likely be happy to drive other guests. Just let us know in advance if you need a ride and we can connect you with someone.

We're not planning a rehearsal dinner but we will have a no-host pre-wedding event the Friday night before for those guests that are already in town. It will be at the Adobe Deli in Deming.

Anyone who wants to head down to The Pink Store with us in Palomas, Mexico the next morning is welcome to join us! Please note, you must bring a Real ID drivers license, passport, or other government issued ID to cross back into the US.

Let's be honest, we know you're all going to show up at our house anyway! Don't be offended if we go to bed early and don't let the cats out when you leave.